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A House Divided
Posted on September 30, 2020 1 Comment
If you live in the US, (or enjoy reality TV shows) you probably watched the presidential debate last evening. Can I just say, wow, that was tragic. No matter what side of the stage you were rooting for, I think it is safe to say, nobody really won here, neither opponent, nor the American people. […]
The Merry-go-round of Trust Issues
Posted on August 28, 2020 Leave a Comment
Well guys, ugly, raw, unfiltered blog here. This could all very well be the pain pills talking, but I’m just going to tell you about my day and what lead up to a random ah-ha moment of self discovery. I spent my morning at work training a new employee. Nothing special happened other than feeling […]
What Happens When Your Church Becomes Your Idol?
Posted on August 3, 2020 6 Comments
When I started publishing a blog I knew there would be backlash. When my book came out, I had no doubt there would be backlash. I knew what the response would be from many people, at least, I thought I knew. I fully expected mud to be thrown at me personally, and I expected to […]
10 Things I Wish I Knew 5 Years Ago
Posted on July 28, 2020 Leave a Comment
In doing what I do, I have had the opportunity to hear many people’s stories about their current church situation. Some are considering leaving, some are in the process of leaving, and others have already left but are learning to deal with the aftermath of that life changing decision. Let me just say, I feel […]
The Repercussions of Modesty Culture Gone Wrong
Posted on June 14, 2020 4 Comments
I am currently sitting outside on my back deck enjoying the beautiful evening listening to the birds. They sound so carefree, and they should be! The Bible makes it clear God Himself takes care of them. Oh to be a sparrow, and by nature fully trust in God for our every need. Why do I […]
Let’s Talk About Mental Health
Posted on May 15, 2020 2 Comments
Hello friends! If you have kept up with my blog posts over the last few weeks, you probably feel I may be slightly bipolar. I am not, I promise. But while we are on the subject, let’s talk about mental health for a bit, shall we? Specifically, mental health in a conservative religious setting. Yikes, […]
The Oxymoron of “Modesty”
Posted on February 7, 2020 9 Comments
I am having a difficult time deciding how to begin this blog, so, I am just going to throw it out there and begin. Yes, that is a picture of me in my beach attire. I thought it was fitting for the theme of the blog. Plus, it is a flashback to warmer days on […]
Finding My Identity
Posted on January 12, 2020
Hey guys! It’s been a minute since I have had time to sit down to write! The holidays were crazy busy around here! As I’m sure yours were as well! But here we are, now in January, the month that always seems to drag on for at least two months! If you hadn’t heard, I […]
The Simplicity Of The Gospel
Posted on November 10, 2019 2 Comments
I will begin this blog by stating the following: I don’t pretend to have all of the theological answers of the world just free roaming around in my brain. Not even close. I will say, that I am actively searching for them. I didn’t go to theology school. In fact, as has been blatantly pointed […]
The Journey
Posted on October 4, 2019 2 Comments
When we first began attending our current church and were ready to come out of our shells and mingle a bit, we were blessed enough to meet a sweet couple who had already been where we were and had not only survived the hurt, they had thrived. This beautiful lady quickly started introducing me to […]
Finding My Freedom, Doing My Life 